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Nickname: softsoul56

Location: anna (Texas), USA

Gemini

Zodiac: Gemini

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Shoe size 6

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Member since: Aug 29 11
Last login: Sep 11 14

softsoul56

susan jackson

About me

I am:

lesbian, Out, non-smoker

Means of transport:

car

Sporty?

pfffff...

My Interests:

Gardening,flea markets, junk shopping, Computer, Dining out, Laze around, Movies, Cooking, Art, Music, Theater, Animals, Watch tv, Swimming

About me:

I am 57. Have 2 daughters ages 14 and 21. I have worked for Home Depot for 18 yrs. and before that, I owned a nursery and landscape business. I enjoy spending time with family and friends. I spend a lot of time outside and love to work in my yard. I am an open book. You ask, I will tell you. I am a very sensitive person but also am a little sarcastic sometimes. I never meet a stranger and I am that person that always wants to make sure everyone feels like they fit in. I am shy in a large group but no so much when just one to one.

This is what I like:

I like people that are genuine. I like the outdoors. I love my kids even more than I could have ever imagined. I like all kinds of music. I like movies that make me laugh and or feel good. I like spending time with those that I love or like a whole lot. I like the friends I have, even though they are few, I like what we have. I like babies, toddlers, dogs and cats. I like time to myself. I like coffee in the morning as I sit on the back deck. I like feeding the birds and watching them eat. I like to camp. I like the lake and the beach. I like that I get along with all ages. I like that I am young at heart.

This is what I don't like:

I don't like people that try to be what you want them to be. I don't like those that don't treat others with respect and that don't have compassion for others. I don't like cold weather. I would choose being hot any day over being cold. I don't like that my kids are growing up so fast. I don't like getting older and not always recognizing who I am in the mirror. I don't like liver or anchovies. I don't like opera. I don't like to be ignored. I don't like to be pressured about things I am unsure about.

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What if...?

If you could have a date with a famous lesbian person who would it be and why?
Ellen because I think she is an amazing person. Kind and funny. There would never be a dull moment.
If you were to belong to a TV family, which one would you like to belong to? Why?
I would like to be apart of the Big Bang Theory group. Not really a family but I'd like to hang with Sheldon
What does a perfect weekend look like for you?
Spending time with those I love doing anything that involes us doing it together.
What gets you up the walls?
Nagging.
What does your flat / appartment look like? Please describe.
House looks casual and comfortable. Eclectic group of things I have collected through the years. Alot of stories that go with my belongings
What do you dream of in life?
I dream of spending the rest of my years being financially secure with a partner I can look at and know that I am home.
What makes you laugh?
Just about anything. My daughters can always make me laugh.
When was the last time you cried?
I cry almost every day. Cry at sad tv shows. Cry at happy tv shows. Cry when my kids do something amazing.
If you were going to a deserted island, which three things or persons would you take? Why?
My 2 kids, and my partner if I had one at the time because I would not want to be anywhere without them.
Which book have you read more than 1 times and why?
"Are YOU The ONE For Me"....a self help book that I have to keep going back to remind me of not falling for the potential of someone
Which famous person would you like to be for just one day?
Ellen Degeneres.
If you could go back one day in your life and re-live it, which day would you choose and why?
The day that my daughter was born. It was amazing and I felt true unconditional love at that point.
What is the most embarrasing thing that has ever happened to you?
Went on a business trip in my younger days with a group of sales reps that were taking me on a buying trip and my pants got caught on something and ripped wide open down the front. I was with a group of guys and they had to go find me safety pins to fix
If you saw your zipper was down and people had noticed, what would you do?
zip it up
Where was the most horrible place you have ever had to spend the night?
hospital by myself
If you were going to get stuck in an elevator, who would you hate to be stuck with? Why?
No one in particular but would not want to be in there with someone obnoxious cause I might have to hurt them
If you ever had to chance to be invisible for one day what would you do?
Hang out with one of my kids to see what they do when I am not around
What if your cell phone fell in the toilet, what would you do?
take it out and wipe it off and go on my way and hope that I had already flushed or that I had not gone yet
What item or which person would you explain to an alien?
cell phone
Which song makes you go into a screaming fit?
every song my 14 yr old listens to. Her taste in music includes bands with names such as Blood on the Dance Floor
What is your favourite food?
Fried shrimp
If you were to have a date with your dream woman and she gobbles her food down, what would you do?
nothing other than pray she didn't choke. I don't know the heimlick
What would you do with a piece of paper?
write a note
How old were you at your first kiss and who or what *lol* did you kiss?
15 and it was with my best friend
What annoys you the most about lesbians?
That some act like they have something to prove . I am who I am. Lesbian or not.
Have you ever been dragged out the ladies toilet again because someone thought you were a man?
nope can't say that I have
How did you end up in the SHOE community and Whaddayathink?
I ended up here originally because someone that was attracked to me on another site told me to join so they could chat with me
And finally... What are you REALLY supposed to be doing now?
This is about it.